A Eulogy of Love

I will speak of my sister's life as she would want it heard.

I will make sure that those that she has touched are fully informed of where she came from and what she achieved. I will speak with pride about why I have cried for her passing. I will set aside for now my anger that those who let her down but I will not forget those who have run and hid when my sister was in need.

Not for me to be her biographer, it is more than that I will evangelise her credo.

How to comfort a girl who has lost her mother?

How to help a son who has lost his mother?

It does not get better with time you just find that others distract you with their demands. Like an amputee you always sence the loss and it hurts. But talking helps providing it is not about the passing to remember why she was special.